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THANK GOD I KNOW BENTOP

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By Kehinde Aderemi

Today, as I write this piece, I am filled with gratitude and joy, reflecting on the profound impact one individual has had on my life.

Let me use this opportunity to express my heartfelt appreciation to a remarkable person, my boss, my brother, and my confidant,
Mr.Tope-Bentop Adeboboye, who is now the Weekend editor of the Saturday and Sunday Sun titles on this special day of his birthday. His influence in my life has been nothing short of transformative.

Bentop’s kindness, generosity, and unwavering support have been a constant source of inspiration, motivating me to strive for excellence in all aspects of my life.

I still remember the day I met him like it was yesterday. It was through my late godfather, the late Pa Bayo Oguntuase (of blessed memory).

His warm smile and genuine interest in my well-being immediately put me at ease, and I knew I was in the presence of someone truly special.

At some point in his career, he travelled abroad and I lost contact with him until The Sun platform reunited us again.

Just recently, he asked me :”Kehinde how did we reconnect?”And I told him of a story of how we reconnected at The Sun.

He could not vividly remember, but he made one salient statement that day that there’s always a purpose for everything in life.

Yes, life is a mystery. God is always the arbiter of our fate. In the journey of life, you can only try your best and leave the rest for God the Creator of heaven and earth.

For me, I thank God I know Bentop.

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Over the years, Bentop has been more than just a benefactor to me; he’s been a mentor, a friend, and a guiding light. His wisdom, counsel, and encouragement have helped me navigate life’s challenges with confidence and resilience.

One of Bentop’s most remarkable qualities is his ability to see potential in people and nurture it.He has a gift for identifying strengths and weaknesses, and his guidance has been invaluable in helping me grow both personally and professionally.

Bentop’s influence extends far beyond his immediate circle. He has a way of inspiring others, creating a ripple effect of kindness and generosity that touches countless lives.

I am not alone in my admiration for Bentop. He has touched the lives of many, and his influence can be seen in the countless lives he has impacted.

None of us that passed through him can deny the fact that he has been the inspiration that enhanced our careers as journalists.

His kindness knows no bounds. He has been a source of comfort and support during difficult times, always willing to lend a listening ear or offer a helping hand. His selflessness is a quality that I admire and aspire to emulate.

As I reflect on my journey with him, I am reminded of the countless ways he has positively impacted my life. He has been a constant presence in my life, and for that, I am eternally grateful.

Let me tell you a few things I know about him. Bentop is a workaholic.He defines his motive very clearly and he is very blunt. He is very kind and generous and he doesn’t like liars.He is not your regular fan if you are attention-getting personality.He is very humble and meticulous.
Bentop is a disciplinarian that handles issues with caution.

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As we celebrate his birthday today, I want to take a moment to tell the world about the sacrifices he has made for others.

His selflessness and dedication to helping those in need are qualities that make him an exceptional individual, and I feel fortunate to know him.He is not somebody that easily got attracted to life’s frivolity. He is very calculating and unassuming.

As far as I am concerned, I think it is essential to acknowledge and appreciate him as one of the people that have made a positive impact in my life and today is a perfect opportunity to do just that.

Like his birthday mate,and Fuji maestro,King Saheed Osupa, whose music is rooted in deep thought and unusual composition, Bentop’s legacy as a media aficionado is also that of kindness, compassion, and generosity.

He has shown me that even the smallest acts of kindness can have a profound impact on someone’s life, and I strive to carry on this legacy in my own way.

His birthday is a celebration not just of his life but also of the lives he has touched.

As we mark this special day, I want to express my heartfelt wishes to him. May his birthday be filled with joy, love, and celebration. May he continue to inspire and uplift those around him, and may his legacy of kindness continue to grow.

His impact on my life has been profound, and I am grateful for the opportunity to call him my benefactor and friend. His influence has shaped me into the person I am today, and I am thankful for his unwavering support.

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One of the most significant lessons I have learned from Bentop is the importance of humility and gratitude.

Despite his many accomplishments and contributions, he remains humble and grounded, always willing to listen and learn.

As I look back on our journey together, I am filled with a sense of awe and gratitude. His kindness, generosity, and support have been a constant source of inspiration, and I am honoured to have him in my life.

His birthday is a celebration of life, kindness, and generosity. It’s a reminder that we all have the power to make a positive impact in the lives of others, and I am grateful for the opportunity to celebrate his life and legacy.

I hope that Bentop’s story will inspire others to pay it forward, to be kind, and to make a positive impact in the lives of those around them. His legacy is a testament to the power of kindness and generosity.

As we celebrate Bentop’s birthday, I want to encourage others to reflect on the people who have made a positive impact in their lives.

Finally ,I want to say thank you to Bentop for being an extraordinary individual.

Your kindness, generosity, and support have made a profound impact on my life, and I am grateful for your presence in my life.

Happy birthday sir! May this special day be of blessing and happiness for you and yours. Aseyi samodun Omo Igibielushowonnigbo.

Kehinde Aderemi, a journalist, an author and public commentator writes from Lagos.

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Charly Boy celebrates daughter’s engagement to female partner

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Former president of the Performing Musicians Association of Nigeria (PMAN), Charles Oputa, better known as Charly Boy, has celebrated the engagement of his daughter, Adaeze, to her female partner.

The popular musician, also famously known as Area Fada, shared a video from the engagement ceremony on his Instagram page, describing Adaeze and her partner as his “beautiful Princess and her Husband.”

“Folks, wish dem well for me,” he wrote.

Adaeze also announced the engagement in a separate Instagram post, sharing a photograph of herself with her partner.

“WE’RE ENGAGED!” she wrote, using the hashtag #mrsandmrs.

She described the engagement as the beginning of a lifetime together, expressing excitement about their future.

“Here’s to a lifetime of love, laughter, growth, and making beautiful memories together. I can’t wait for everything God has in store for us. Forever sounds even sweeter with you,” she added.

The announcement has attracted mixed reactions from social media users.

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Nigerian-British social media influencer dies after $9,000 penis enlargement procedure in Thailand

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Igho Ubiribo, a Nigerian-British businessman and social media influencer, has reportedly died after undergoing a penis enlargement procedure during a luxury trip to Thailand.

According to findings from an inquest in the United Kingdom, 43-year-old Ubiribo died after the cosmetic treatment triggered a fatal pulmonary embolism.

The businessman, who was also known as “Tiny”, “Denisi” and “Ego”, was on holiday in Bangkok with his wife, Danielle Simba Allen, when he decided to undergo the procedure.

Reports from the inquest revealed that doctors injected about 40 millilitres of hyaluronic acid and lidocaine into his penis at an unnamed clinic in Thailand in March.

After the procedure, Ubiribo and his wife reportedly returned to their Marriott hotel, where they went for a massage.

It was during the massage that he complained of chest pain before collapsing and losing consciousness.

He was rushed to Sukhumvit Hospital, where he was initially able to respond to medical staff.

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His wife reportedly informed doctors that he had recently undergone penis filler injections, prompting concerns that the procedure may have been linked to his condition.

Medical personnel suspected a pulmonary embolism and recommended further scans, but Ubiribo reportedly lost consciousness before the examination could be completed.

Doctors later transferred him to intensive care, where attempts were made to revive him through prolonged cardiopulmonary resuscitation.

He was pronounced dead in the early hours of March 6.

A postmortem examination conducted in the UK later reportedly found material in Ubiribo’s lungs consistent with the hyaluronic acid used during the penis filler procedure.

Pathologist John du Parcq told the inquest that the substance discovered matched the material injected during the cosmetic treatment.

He said the findings supported the conclusion that Ubiribo suffered a pulmonary embolism caused by the procedure.

The coroner, Jean Harkin, subsequently ruled that the businessman’s death was caused by a pulmonary embolism linked to the cosmetic injection.

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A pulmonary embolism occurs when a blood clot or other material blocks a blood vessel supplying the lungs, potentially causing sudden breathing difficulties, heart strain and death.

During the inquest, information from Ubiribo’s doctor in London showed that he had previously undergone joint surgeries and had been described as pre-diabetic and suffering from gout.

However, his doctor reportedly said he had no other major medical conditions.

Penis fillers containing hyaluronic acid are marketed as a non-surgical option for increasing girth, but medical experts have warned that injectable cosmetic procedures can carry serious risks if complications occur.

Ubiribo was known for showcasing his luxury lifestyle on social media, where he had about 185,000 Instagram followers.

Reports said he owned a home in Los Angeles valued at about $1.1 million and a London apartment reportedly worth around $600,000.

He married Zimbabwean fashion designer Danielle Simba Allen in a lavish ceremony in 2022.

Following his death, Ubiribo was buried in London in a gold coffin, with reports claiming the funeral arrangement cost hundreds of thousands of dollars.

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Afrobeats singer Davido, who was described as a childhood friend of the businessman, attended the funeral and paid tribute to him.

The case has renewed attention on the potential dangers associated with cosmetic procedures involving injectable fillers, after medical evidence linked the treatment to the fatal complication.

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Help locate my husband! 68-year-old British woman cries out as 31-year-old Nigerian lover disappears after arriving UK

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For 68-year-old British citizen, Dawn Ottewell, it was literally love at first sight after she hooked up with 31-year-old Nigerian, Bright Emokpae on a popular dating App, Tinder.

But what began as a love story conceived in heaven and consummated on earth has ended in heartbreak and a desperate search for answers.

At the beginning,  Dawn, who obviously was consumed by love, quickly made efforts to facilitate Emokpae’s movement to the United Kingdom after their wedding.

But soon after he arrived in the UK on a spousal visa Emokpae disappeared into thin air. At the beginning, Dawn probably believed her new husband had simply stepped out and would be back soon.

But it soon dawned on her that new husband wouldn’t be coming back any time soon.

In a story published in the UK Sun, the love-struck 68-year-old said she met the Edo State born Bright when she was at the lowest ebb in 2021 and he brightened her life with love.

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At the time, Bright Emokpae was reportedly a student in Cyprus and Dawn went on a visit. The couple eventually got married in 2022.

In 2023 Bright was in Nigeria to complete formalities for his visa to the UK courtesy of papers filed by Dawn and he relocated thereafter.

Shortly after his arrival, Dawn claimed that Bright became withdrawn and was always asking for money from her and added nothing to the sustenance of the home.

The pair separated but reunited in October 2023. According to Dawn, Bright reconciled with her because she  received a £63,000 settlement following a botched NHS prolapse operation. But he bolted from their home once again.

Not willing to put up with Emokpae’s flight from home any more, Dawn wants a divorce but her man cannot be located to sign the papers with Dawn speculating that he may have relocated to Scotland.

“He’s done a runner and is refusing to sign the divorce papers because I believe he wants to cling on to his spouse visa,” she said.

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But Dawn’s main worry is that if she dies before the divorce papers are signed Bright could inherit her estate. “My biggest fear is that I’ll die before this is sorted out and he’ll run off with the money my three children should inherit,” she said.

She says she feels Bright simply used her to get into the UK and she’s appealing for help to locate him.

“I feel I’m being used,” Ottewell said.

She added, “I would advise people to be very careful who they marry, especially when the person is from abroad, because a lot of them are just doing it for a visa, and then they disappear.”

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