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‘Don’t let romance die’ — Adeboye advises couples, says anointing does not reduce romance

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The General Overseer of the Redeemed Christian Church of God, Pastor Enoch Adeboye, has opened up about the importance of maintaining romance in marriage, even in the midst of spiritual responsibilities.

In a candid revelation, Adeboye shared that he and his wife, Foluke, still nurture their love with pet names when they are alone, emphasising that “anointing does not reduce romance.”

Through his heartfelt message, he urged married couples, especially pastors, to prioritise intimacy and romance, ensuring their marriages remain vibrant and joyful.

“Don’t let romance die,” he counselled.

 

The pastor in a Friday post on his official Facebook handle, disclosed that he has a pet name that he calls his wife, Foluke, when they are alone and that anointing does not reduce romance in marriage.

 

He explained that some pastors avoid romantic activities, believing it distracts from their spiritual focus. Adeboye emphasised that being anointed should not negate the need for romance, drawing an example from the Bible.

He said, “Some pastors hardly go on dates with their spouses because they consider such a romantic activity a distraction from their focus on spiritual matters.”

He advised couples to rekindle their connection and spend quality time together, ensuring that their marriage remains fun and loving:

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“Once in a while, compose a poem for your spouse… Have a pet name that you call each other behind closed doors.”

Finally, he shared a personal detail, underscoring that even in their senior roles, he and his wife still prioritise their bond as lovers:
“Up until today, there is a pet name my wife calls me when we are alone… When we are alone, we are lovers, not Daddy G.O and Mummy G.O.”

Adeboye highlighted that being a Christian doesn’t remove the need for romance in marriage, urging couples, especially pastors, to not neglect intimacy for spiritual duties. He cited Isaac’s playful interaction with Rebekah in Genesis 26:8 as an example of balancing anointing with romance.

“The fact that you are a Christian does not in any way take the romance out of your marriage. Marriage is the only institution where romance and intimacy are allowed between a man and a woman.

“Some pastors hardly go on dates with their spouses because they consider such a romantic activity as a distraction from their focus on spiritual matters.

“Some of them don’t even play with their spouses anymore. Beloved, the anointing does not reduce the need for romance in marriage.”

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He encouraged couples to rekindle their connection, reminding them of the joy and fun they shared before life’s responsibilities took over. He stresses the importance of making time for each other and keeping their bond strong.

 

“Isaac was an anointed man of God and a successful businessman, yet in Genesis 26:8, the Bible says he was being romantic with his wife:

And it came to pass, when he had been there a long time, that Abimelech, king of the Philistines, looked out at a window, and saw, and, behold, Isaac was sporting with Rebekah, his wife.

“Don’t become too rigid in your marriage; don’t have more fun elsewhere without your spouse. Make the times that you and your spouse spend together so much fun that you are always looking forward to seeing each other again. If you are married, remember how you used to talk for long hours with your spouse before you got married and had children; revive that relationship again.

“Your spouse is still the same fellow you were very fond of, and the things you loved in him or her are still there. Don’t let all the cares of this life distract you from the gems in your spouse.

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He suggested simple acts like writing notes, using pet names, and surprising each other to keep the romance alive.

Adeboye shared that even he and his wife still do this, advising couples to be intentional about nurturing love in their marriage.

“Once in a while, compose a poem for your spouse and read it to him or her in a romantic setting. Spice things up with pleasant surprises every now and then. Write a note and put it in his or her bag so that when they get to the office and open their bag, they will see the note and smile.

“Have a pet name that you call each other behind closed doors. Up until today, there is a pet name my wife calls me when we are alone. I equally have a pet name that I call her, and every time I call her by that name, she cannot but smile at me lovingly.

“When we are alone, we are lovers, not Daddy G.O. and Mummy G.O. Your marriage can be like heaven on earth if you and your spouse are deliberate about remaining the lovebirds that you were when you first got married. Don’t let the romance die,” he concluded.

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Jubril Adewale Tinubu @59: Rich in Fortune, Richer in Humanity

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There are men who announce their greatness with noise, and then there are those whose achievements speak so thunderously that fanfare becomes unnecessary. Jubril Adewale Tinubu — “Wale” to friends, family, and the many who hold him in deep admiration — belongs firmly in the latter category.

As he marks another year of a life lived with uncommon purpose and quiet distinction, it is only fitting that the world pauses, if only for a moment, to celebrate a man whose footprints are etched permanently on the landscape of Nigeria’s economic history.

Wale Tinubu’s journey reads like the kind of story that inspires a generation. Armed with a Bachelor of Laws degree from the University of Liverpool and a Master of Laws from the prestigious London School of Economics, where he specialised in International Finance and Shipping, he returned to Nigeria not merely to practise law, but to build an empire.

He began his career at the family law firm, K. O. Tinubu & Co., sharpening his instincts in corporate and petroleum law — skills that would later serve as the bedrock of something far bigger than anyone could have imagined.

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In 1994, with vision as his compass and tenacity as his fuel, he founded Ocean and Oil Group — a modest oil trading and shipping outfit that he would, over the next three decades, transform into Oando PLC, Sub-Saharan Africa’s foremost integrated indigenous energy group. It is the kind of achievement that defies easy description.

Forbes Magazine captured it best in its 2011 edition, crowning him “The King of African Oil” — a title that, even years later, sits comfortably on his broad shoulders. In 2007, the World Economic Forum in Geneva named him a Global Young Leader, placing him in the exclusive company of the world’s most consequential minds under the age of 41.

Yet, what truly separates him from the ordinary captains of industry is the humanity he brings to his enterprise. His leadership of Oando has never been merely about barrels of oil or bottom lines. It has been about people — about building local capacity, championing indigenous talent, and proving, with every quarterly result and every community touched, that African businesses can compete and win on the global stage.

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For the young Nigerian entrepreneur staring at a blank page and a bold dream, Wale Tinubu is living proof that it is possible.

Beyond the boardroom, his philanthropic instincts have left an indelible mark. Through the Oando Foundation, he has positively impacted over 500,000 Nigerian children through school adoption programmes, digital learning initiatives, and teacher training — a legacy that no balance sheet can fully capture.

In a world where success often breeds aloofness and privilege can create distance, Tinubu remains refreshingly accessible and profoundly humane. His interactions with people are marked by warmth, sincerity and a genuine interest in the welfare of others.

Whether dealing with friends, associates or even casual acquaintances, he has consistently demonstrated that true greatness lies not in the accumulation of material possessions but in the ability to uplift and inspire those around us.

Many who know him count themselves fortunate to have encountered him. Indeed, there is a recurring sentiment among those within his circle that destiny smiled kindly on them the day their paths crossed with his.

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Such is the effect of a man whose benevolence transcends social and professional boundaries.

At 59, JAT as fondly called stands as a compelling reminder that a life of impact is measured not solely by personal accomplishments but also by the positive difference one makes in the lives of others. His journey thus far reflects purpose, compassion and an abiding commitment to humanity.

On this occasion of his birthday, the tributes are many and deserved. He is being celebrated as “one of the significant contributors to Africa’s economic growth and development.” But perhaps the greatest tribute comes not from statesmen or magazine covers, but from the young entrepreneurs across the continent who look at Tinubu and dare to dream bigger.

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At 90, Chief Mrs. Alice Mobolaji Osomo Remains a Symbol of Purposeful Leadership – Ambassador Iji

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The Nigerian Ambassador to the Russian Federation, Ambassador Joseph Olusola Iji, has paid glowing tribute to Chief Mrs. Alice Mobolaji Osomo on the occasion of her 90th birthday, describing her as a distinguished elder stateswoman whose legacy of service continues to inspire generations within and beyond Nigeria.

In a congratulatory message issued from the Embassy of the Federal Republic of Nigeria in Moscow, Ambassador Iji celebrated the former minister’s remarkable contributions to national development, noting that her career remains a shining example of patriotism, dedication and unwavering professionalism.

According to the Ambassador, Chief Osomo’s public service journey is a masterclass in leadership and commitment to nation-building. He recalled her tenure as Commissioner for Trade, Industries and Cooperatives in Ondo State, where she played a pivotal role in laying the state’s industrial foundation through the establishment of key industries and enterprises that contributed significantly to economic growth and employment.

Ambassador Iji further highlighted her distinguished service at the national level, where she held strategic positions including Minister of Establishment and Management Services, Director of NICON Insurance, and Minister of Housing, Land and Urban Development.
“In every role she occupied, Chief Mrs. Osomo demonstrated selfless commitment to national progress and upheld the highest standards of excellence,” he noted.

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The Ambassador also expressed pride in Chief Osomo’s roots as a daughter of Apoi Land and a respected leader from Ondo State, emphasizing that her achievements have brought honour not only to her community but also to Nigeria as a whole.

He described her as a matriarch whose life embodies the values of integrity, resilience, and service, Ambassador Iji said her impact continues to transcend geographical boundaries and generations.

“As she marks this remarkable milestone, we celebrate not just her longevity but the enduring legacy she has built through decades of dedicated service to humanity and nationhood,” he stated.

He concluded by offering prayers for God’s continued blessings upon the nonagenarian, wishing her excellent health, abiding joy, peace and many more years of fulfilment.

Chief Mrs. Alice Mobolaji Osomo’s 90th birthday has attracted widespread goodwill messages from across Nigeria and the international community, reflecting the profound respect and admiration she has earned through a lifetime of exemplary public service and leadership.

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The Other Side of Kayode Ajulo

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He is widely admired as one of the brightest legal minds of his generation, an exceptional advocate whose deep understanding of the law earned him the prestigious title of Senior Advocate of Nigeria (SAN).

Today, Dr. Kayode Ajulo, Officer of the Order of the Niger (OON) holds the influential office of Commissioner for Justice and Attorney General of Ondo State.

In both legal and political circles, Dr. Ajulo is seen as a force to be reckoned with and respected for his sharp intellect, fearless courage, and an unshakable commitment to justice.

But there’s a side of him that most people rarely get to see.

While the public encounters him in courtrooms, strategy rooms, and government corridors, Ajulo’s life is equally shaped by something quieter, deeper and undeniably spiritual.

Those who know him well often describe a man whose faith goes beyond public displays. He is not the kind of person who treats worship with casualness; rather, he is deeply devoted to the things of God, with a reverence that shows in how seriously he takes his spiritual responsibilities.

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And then there’s another interesting detail: beyond the legal mind, Ajulo is also said to have a genuine love for hymn music, a softer, more reflective side that finds joy in worship, Christian fellowship, and hymn renditions. For him, faith is not a public performance; it is a life lived with devotion.

That lesser-known side of his personality was on full display last weekend when he honoured the Women Fellowship Day of the Cherubim and Seraphim Church, Abuja District Headquarters as Special Guest of Honour and Father of the Day.

Witnesses described the outing as touching and unforgettable. Ajulo reportedly delivered inspiring messages filled with conviction, sprinkled with soul-lifting songs that resonated strongly with the congregation.

His words moved the audience so deeply that many gave him a standing ovation, accompanied by thunderous applause.

In addition, the Ondo Attorney General further demonstrated his commitment to the work of the gospel through generous financial support for the church’s activities.

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To Kayode Ajulo, life is clearly not defined by title alone, nor by legal brilliance or political influence. Behind the formidable advocate is a man driven by faith, service, and a steady devotion to God, proving that even with a tough legal mind, his heart still beats for humanity and for the work of the Kingdom.

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