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‘Don’t let romance die’ — Adeboye advises couples, says anointing does not reduce romance

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The General Overseer of the Redeemed Christian Church of God, Pastor Enoch Adeboye, has opened up about the importance of maintaining romance in marriage, even in the midst of spiritual responsibilities.

In a candid revelation, Adeboye shared that he and his wife, Foluke, still nurture their love with pet names when they are alone, emphasising that “anointing does not reduce romance.”

Through his heartfelt message, he urged married couples, especially pastors, to prioritise intimacy and romance, ensuring their marriages remain vibrant and joyful.

“Don’t let romance die,” he counselled.

 

The pastor in a Friday post on his official Facebook handle, disclosed that he has a pet name that he calls his wife, Foluke, when they are alone and that anointing does not reduce romance in marriage.

 

He explained that some pastors avoid romantic activities, believing it distracts from their spiritual focus. Adeboye emphasised that being anointed should not negate the need for romance, drawing an example from the Bible.

He said, “Some pastors hardly go on dates with their spouses because they consider such a romantic activity a distraction from their focus on spiritual matters.”

He advised couples to rekindle their connection and spend quality time together, ensuring that their marriage remains fun and loving:

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“Once in a while, compose a poem for your spouse… Have a pet name that you call each other behind closed doors.”

Finally, he shared a personal detail, underscoring that even in their senior roles, he and his wife still prioritise their bond as lovers:
“Up until today, there is a pet name my wife calls me when we are alone… When we are alone, we are lovers, not Daddy G.O and Mummy G.O.”

Adeboye highlighted that being a Christian doesn’t remove the need for romance in marriage, urging couples, especially pastors, to not neglect intimacy for spiritual duties. He cited Isaac’s playful interaction with Rebekah in Genesis 26:8 as an example of balancing anointing with romance.

“The fact that you are a Christian does not in any way take the romance out of your marriage. Marriage is the only institution where romance and intimacy are allowed between a man and a woman.

“Some pastors hardly go on dates with their spouses because they consider such a romantic activity as a distraction from their focus on spiritual matters.

“Some of them don’t even play with their spouses anymore. Beloved, the anointing does not reduce the need for romance in marriage.”

He encouraged couples to rekindle their connection, reminding them of the joy and fun they shared before life’s responsibilities took over. He stresses the importance of making time for each other and keeping their bond strong.

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“Isaac was an anointed man of God and a successful businessman, yet in Genesis 26:8, the Bible says he was being romantic with his wife:

And it came to pass, when he had been there a long time, that Abimelech, king of the Philistines, looked out at a window, and saw, and, behold, Isaac was sporting with Rebekah, his wife.

“Don’t become too rigid in your marriage; don’t have more fun elsewhere without your spouse. Make the times that you and your spouse spend together so much fun that you are always looking forward to seeing each other again. If you are married, remember how you used to talk for long hours with your spouse before you got married and had children; revive that relationship again.

“Your spouse is still the same fellow you were very fond of, and the things you loved in him or her are still there. Don’t let all the cares of this life distract you from the gems in your spouse.

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He suggested simple acts like writing notes, using pet names, and surprising each other to keep the romance alive.

Adeboye shared that even he and his wife still do this, advising couples to be intentional about nurturing love in their marriage.

“Once in a while, compose a poem for your spouse and read it to him or her in a romantic setting. Spice things up with pleasant surprises every now and then. Write a note and put it in his or her bag so that when they get to the office and open their bag, they will see the note and smile.

“Have a pet name that you call each other behind closed doors. Up until today, there is a pet name my wife calls me when we are alone. I equally have a pet name that I call her, and every time I call her by that name, she cannot but smile at me lovingly.

“When we are alone, we are lovers, not Daddy G.O. and Mummy G.O. Your marriage can be like heaven on earth if you and your spouse are deliberate about remaining the lovebirds that you were when you first got married. Don’t let the romance die,” he concluded.

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Revealed! How Bobrisky spent jail term in Kirikiri special cell

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More details have emerged on what transpired during the six-month jail term of popular cross dresser, Idris Okuneye, aka Bobrisky.

It has been revealed that the controversial social media influencer after being sentenced for spraying the naira, was taken to the Ikoyi Custodial Centre on April 12, 2024.

 

According to a report by Saturday PUNCH, Bobrisky, who had prison number S682/2024, was taken to the Medium Security Custodial Centre, Kirikiri, as his presence began to attract attention and generate publicity.

 

A highly credible source said, “He was first moved to the Ikoyi prison where he spent a few days before the controller, Ben-Rabbi Freedman, moved him to the Medium Security Custodial Centre, Kirikiri.”

 

Another top source confirmed Bobrisky’s movement from the Ikoyi facility to the Medium Security Custodial Centre, adding that he spent some days there before he was again moved to the Maximum Security Custodial Centre, Kirikiri.

 

The source explained that he was visited by some relatives in the prison, adding that there was a record of all his activities.

 

“Many people visited him in the place, including three family members. Those people followed due process and that was why they were able to see and visit him. I also saw him in the prison. He looked gentle and sober,” the source added.

 

The special ‘cell’

It was gathered that there was usually provision for some inmates considered to be “Very Important Persons” who might be at risk if allowed to mingle with other inmates.

 

“The place is like a back cell or a single cell originally reserved for well-behaved inmates. This is in accordance with prison rules. They are put there to compensate for their good behaviour.

 

“However, when warders bring in certain people, they are taken there. They live whichever way they want. Some of the inmates furnish the place to their taste,” the source stated.

On how much it costs to use the room, the source noted that such was usually determined by the officer in charge of the centre.

 

“They collect huge sums of money from them, depending on the kind of inmates they have. When you saw the fight between operatives of the DSS and prison service for (Godwin) Emefiele on the court premises, what did you think was the reason? It’s because of the benefits that come with having such a person in custody,” the source added.

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The source noted that Bobrisky might have been put in the “special cell” during his time in the Kirikiri prison.

 

Another source, who confirmed the existence of such an arrangement, said negotiations usually start from the court between inmates and prison officials.

The source said the correctional service knew what it wanted to do, hence Bobrisky was allegedly shielded from inmates when he was admitted.

He said, “Inmates who saw him at the medium prison before he was moved to maximum prison were not many. It was all planned.”

But the spokesperson for the Nigerian Correctional Service, Abubakar Umar, denied the report that there was preferential treatment for VIP convicts.

“We are not aware of such. They are alien to us. However, that information will be investigated. All inmates are given the same treatment. We don’t have any preferential treatment for anybody,” he insisted.

Controversial cross-dresser

Bobrisky has been in the eye of the storm since Wednesday, April 3, 2024, when operatives of the Lagos command of the Economic and Financial Crimes Commission arrested and detained him over allegations of mutilating naira notes worth N490,000 and money laundering.

The arrest followed a viral video that showed him spraying naira notes at the premiere of the movie Ajakaju at Film One Circle Mall, Lekki, Lagos, on March 24, 2024.

 

He was subsequently arraigned at the Federal High Court in Lagos on six counts. The first four counts involved the abuse of the Nigerian currency, while the last two were on money laundering.

 

However, before the charges were read, the EFCC prosecutor, Mr Sulaiman Sulaiman, requested the court to strike out counts five and six.

“We have an agreement with the defendant to withdraw counts five and six. Therefore, we humbly urge the court to strike them out, leaving counts one to four,” he said.

 

The court then dismissed the two counts, and scheduled April 9, 2024, for judgement.

Bobrisky pleaded guilty to the remaining charges, and on Friday, April 12, 2024, Justice Abimbola Awogboro sentenced him to six months in prison without the option of a fine for abusing the naira.

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While many Nigerians expected Bobrisky’s appearance to change following his time in prison, the controversial social media personality hosted a celebratory party just hours after his release on Monday, August 5, 2024.

Appearing more radiant than before, Bobrisky, in a viral video, boasted, “I came back from jail with a nice body,” prompting doubts about whether he truly served his sentence at a custodial centre or not.

But he landed in fresh trouble on Tuesday when a social media activist, Martins Otse, also known as VeryDarkMan, called him out over an unpaid debt.

In a trending video, VDM said a creditor approached him, pleading for help in recovering N4m that Bobrisky borrowed.

The creditor reportedly sent Bobrisky the sum when the latter was desperate to raise money for a private apartment in prison. He, however, allegedly refused to repay the loan after his release.

VDM subsequently played an audio clip in which the ex-convict purportedly admitted to paying unnamed EFCC operatives N15m for dropping the money laundering charges against him.

Bobrisky also allegedly claimed in the audio that he served his six-month jail term in a private flat near the prison after a “mentor” spoke to the prison authorities in Abuja.

 

After the tape went viral, Bobrisky took to his Instagram page to deny making such claims, saying that the audio was fake.

 

He said, “I didn’t pay any EFCC official N15m, and I served my jail term in full. Disregard any false information being spread.”

 

Suspension without due process

As the scandal gained momentum, the Minister of Interior, Dr Olubunmi Tunji-Ojo, on Wednesday, initiated a probe into the allegations.

The Civil Defence, Correctional, Fire and Immigration Services Board also suspended the officers in charge of the Maximum and Minimum Custodial Centres.

In a statement issued in Abuja on Thursday, the Secretary of CDCFIB, Ja’afaru Ahmed, said the suspension of the officers was to allow for further investigation into the various allegations, assuring that the outcome would be made public when concluded.

 

He said, “Following the viral video trending on social media on alleged infractions by officers of the Nigerian Correctional Service relating to Mr Idris Okuneye, widely known as Bobrisky, the Civil Defence, Correctional, Fire and Immigration Services Board has suspended forthwith the following Senior Officers of the Service.

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“Michael Anugwa, Deputy Controller of Corrections In-Charge of Medium Security Custodial Centre, Kirikiri, Lagos State; and Sikiru Adekunle, Deputy Controller of Corrections, in-charge of Maximum Security Custodial Centre, Kirikiri, Lagos State.

 

“Also, the Board has suspended ASC II Ogbule Samuel Obinna, serving at the Medium Security Custodial Centre, Afikpo, Ebonyi State, for allegedly accompanying a convicted inmate out of the Custodial Centre to a location outside the facility.

 

“In another related development, the Board has equally suspended another Senior Officer of the Service, Iloafonsi Kevin Ikechukwu, Deputy Controller of Corrections, In-Charge of Medium Security Custodial Centre, Kuje- Abuja, for allegedly receiving monies on behalf of an inmate”.

However, sources in the correctional service criticised the decision of the board to suspend the officers without due process.

 

According to reports, Adekunle, who resumed at the maximum prison a few months ago, was not served a query like the rest of his colleagues.

“The action was a flagrant disregard for the civil service rules, which lays down the process for such a decision. None of the officers were served queries or allowed to defend themselves.

 

“Also, the board does not suspend directly. The queries are supposed to come from the correctional service, who will then make recommendations to the board.

“In addition, if there should be a suspension, it should be announced by the controller general of the correctional service,” a source said.

The source also wondered why the officers were singled out for punishment if Bobrisky’s allegation was against the controller general.

He noted that the panel constituted against the officers did not include any official of the correctional service, saying nothing would come out of it.

Also, the EFCC’s Head of Media and Publicity, Dele Oyewale, said the commission’s Chairman, Ola Olukoyede, had ordered an investigation into the matter.

Oyewale said the commission had also invited VDM and Bobrisky to its Lagos office to assist investigators into the alleged bribery.

“We have said we are investigating. The chairman has ordered that the matter be investigated,” he stated.

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Why Bobrisky was given protective custody – Cleric

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The bishop and director-general of the Prison Rehabilitation Mission, Kayode Williams, says certain inmates are shielded with protective custody in prisons to prevent harm.

Williams spoke on Friday in an interview with Arise TV while addressing the allegations made against Idris Okuneye, a popular crossdresser known as Bobrisky.

 

Bobrisky allegedly bribed some EFCC officials with N15 million to drop the money laundering charge against him, according to an audio clip shared by Martins Otse, better known as VeryDarkMan.

 

Although Bobrisky denied the allegations, the federal government suspended some officials of the Nigerian Correctional Service (NCoS) over the controversy.

 

Weighing in on the matter, Williams said Bobrisky’s gender complexities necessitated him serving his six-month jail sentence in protective custody.

 

Born male, the crossdresser has frequently warned the public to stop referring to him as a man. Bobrisky has also claimed to be Nigeria’s first transgender and once admitted to having severed her genitals.

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But making a shocking turn during his trial on charges of naira abuse in court in April, Bobrisky said he was a man.

 

“Let me explain the categorisation of the prison setup. The prison now called the correctional service has buildings that accommodate convicted criminals, awaiting trials, including condemned criminals,” William said.

 

“When they enter the prison for the first time, they have to put them on proper recording, who is this inmate? where is he to be kept?

 

“This man we are discussing today, he is neither here nor there, as a man or a woman, to be recognised.”

 

The bishop said the confusion about classifying Bobrisky’s gender necessitated the need to have him kept safe in a “special place”.

 

“The first thing the (prison) record will do is to say ‘how do we treat this type of human that is neither woman nor a man?” the director general of Prison Rehabilitation Mission said.

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“Are we going to say he’s a man or a woman? The accommodation that is provided for all males, are they going to bring Idris with her transgender body look to go and sleep in the general cell with general prisoners?

 

“He is transgender, so they looked for a way not to disturb them because she can cause a heavy riot with it

“In prison they call it protective custody because they will tear him to pieces because of his body look,

 

“He looks like a woman, he moves like a woman so for her to go to any cell there are chronic homosexual inmates that are very hungry to go to any length to tear anybody, even the ones that are not transgender they try to rape them.”

Williams said there is a need to reform the Nigerian prison system.

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Don’t kill yourself but change your lifestyle, ask God for forgiveness, Portable tells Bobrisky

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Portable, the controversial singer, has encouraged the crossdresser Bobrisky to “repent from sinful ways” and reconsider her lifestyle choices.

The ‘Zazoo Zeh’ hitmaker’s admonishment came on the back of the troubles bedeviling the crossdresser.

Bobrisky, whose birth name is Idris Okuneye, was released from prison on August 5 after she was sentenced to six months on April 12 for abusing the naira.

Her ordeal started on Tuesday after Martin ‘VeryDarkMan’ Otse shared a purported audio recording online wherein she claimed she bribed some Economic and Financial Crimes Commission (EFCC) officials with N15,000,000 to drop the charges against her.

The self-proclaimed transgender later described the viral recording as “fake”. She argued that she did not pay any amount to the anti-graft agency.

The social media celebrity also insisted that “I served my term in prison”.

Bobrisky’s denial followed after the anti-graft agency invited her and VeryDarkMan over the bribery allegations against its officials.

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Ola Olukoyede, the EFCC chairman, also ordered an immediate investigation into the allegations.

Similarly, Falz, the rapper, appeared to have confirmed a part of VeryDarkMan’s claims in a warning letter to the activist.

In the letter demanding the activist to retract his allegation, Falz claimed the crossdresser called him to seek financial assistance of “N3 million to pay some officials to get a VIP prison section” — which he declined.

Earlier on Thursday, Bobrisky disclosed she is battling suicidal thoughts. She also emphasised that she does not seek sympathy but longs for understanding and support.

Reacting to the post via Instagram, Portable advised Bobrisky not to consider suicide but repent from her sinful ways.

The singer encouraged the self-proclaimed transgender to ask God for forgiveness and embrace a path of redemption.

Portable also emphasised that seeking forgiveness is crucial for her personal growth and well-being.

“Bobrisky, life is risky. God does not want sinners to die. Tell him to repent. Damn it to any sinner that does not repent. If you die, you are going to hell. Beg God to forgive you. God does not want a sinner to die,” he said.

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“Help me tell Bobrisky to ask God for forgiveness. All Bobrisky needs is to ask God for forgiveness of sin. What Bobrisky is facing now, if he repents, he will enjoy the world. But if he does not repent.”

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