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I’m alone to face mockery from enemies who pretend to be friends – Betty Akeredolu

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Betty, the heart-broken widow of late Governor Oluwarotimi Akeredolu of Ondo State, has said she will be alone to face all manners of mockery from adversaries and friends following the death of her husband.

In her tribute, Betty, who has received several criticisms since Akeredolu’s death, said the death of her husband hurts her badly as she would be left in the midst of enemies who pretended to be friends and outright adversaries.


Betty said some friends had lashed out at late Akeredolu and described him as weakling because he loved her.

 

She queried if her husband described as generalissimo of Amotekun could be a weakling?

 

According to her, “By the way, do they know what love is? I don’t think so. In their homes, while growing up they saw their mothers trampled upon as doormats. Beaten up like a punch bags.

 

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“They copied the template and treated their wives as pieces of furniture that could be easily discarded as trash in many instances, the subjugation was garnished with beatings while the community looked the other way and remained unperturbed by gender-based violence/reigned supreme nationwide.”

“In civilized climes, if you beat your wife, jail awaits you even if you are a Governor. They marvel that a Nigerian man can love his wife. To them na only Oyibo man dey love. They are infuriated that a Yoruba man can love his wife who is Igbo.

“How can? Igbo lasan, lasan! To them na only Oyibo man dey love. Na love at first sight brought us together, biko. No be juju! Na love make me cross the Niger. That love at first sight turned out to be true and pure. And you were proud to say it . You were proud to show it. You were even prouder to tell the people of Ondo State and beyond that, we were a team.

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“You were audacious to tell your people that “you voted for one but got two”. A testimony of my positive contribution to your life and career, emotionally and intellectually.

 

“We differed on one aspect, though. Religion. You were religious and wore your faith on your sleeves. I’ am not. With no apologies. You were frustrated. Yet, we managed to work it out by harnessing our communication skills.

 

“You came to terms with my position on religion and respected my choice of pragmatism. And a peaceful home we built by respecting each other’s idiosyncrasies, supporting each other’s career pathways, and loving each other at the same time. That you were courageous is now like a radio jingle on the lips of all and sundry.

 

“As a partner, you were kind and playful but annoying sometimes with your jokes which became normal over the years given that trying to change you from cracking expensive jokes was an exercise
in futility. During our early years of marriage when we started from scratch, you made sure we didn’t lack.

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“You took care of me and the children. With time, you became the best husband, dad, and grandpa any wife, child or grandchild would wish for.

 

“Aketi’s tribute to Betty @60 on July 20, 2013, gives the reader an insight into the marriage of 42 ys we had. We were soul mates. If there is anything like another life, I will marry you and you remain darling mi! ”

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Jubril Adewale Tinubu @59: Rich in Fortune, Richer in Humanity

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There are men who announce their greatness with noise, and then there are those whose achievements speak so thunderously that fanfare becomes unnecessary. Jubril Adewale Tinubu — “Wale” to friends, family, and the many who hold him in deep admiration — belongs firmly in the latter category.

As he marks another year of a life lived with uncommon purpose and quiet distinction, it is only fitting that the world pauses, if only for a moment, to celebrate a man whose footprints are etched permanently on the landscape of Nigeria’s economic history.

Wale Tinubu’s journey reads like the kind of story that inspires a generation. Armed with a Bachelor of Laws degree from the University of Liverpool and a Master of Laws from the prestigious London School of Economics, where he specialised in International Finance and Shipping, he returned to Nigeria not merely to practise law, but to build an empire.

He began his career at the family law firm, K. O. Tinubu & Co., sharpening his instincts in corporate and petroleum law — skills that would later serve as the bedrock of something far bigger than anyone could have imagined.

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In 1994, with vision as his compass and tenacity as his fuel, he founded Ocean and Oil Group — a modest oil trading and shipping outfit that he would, over the next three decades, transform into Oando PLC, Sub-Saharan Africa’s foremost integrated indigenous energy group. It is the kind of achievement that defies easy description.

Forbes Magazine captured it best in its 2011 edition, crowning him “The King of African Oil” — a title that, even years later, sits comfortably on his broad shoulders. In 2007, the World Economic Forum in Geneva named him a Global Young Leader, placing him in the exclusive company of the world’s most consequential minds under the age of 41.

Yet, what truly separates him from the ordinary captains of industry is the humanity he brings to his enterprise. His leadership of Oando has never been merely about barrels of oil or bottom lines. It has been about people — about building local capacity, championing indigenous talent, and proving, with every quarterly result and every community touched, that African businesses can compete and win on the global stage.

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For the young Nigerian entrepreneur staring at a blank page and a bold dream, Wale Tinubu is living proof that it is possible.

Beyond the boardroom, his philanthropic instincts have left an indelible mark. Through the Oando Foundation, he has positively impacted over 500,000 Nigerian children through school adoption programmes, digital learning initiatives, and teacher training — a legacy that no balance sheet can fully capture.

In a world where success often breeds aloofness and privilege can create distance, Tinubu remains refreshingly accessible and profoundly humane. His interactions with people are marked by warmth, sincerity and a genuine interest in the welfare of others.

Whether dealing with friends, associates or even casual acquaintances, he has consistently demonstrated that true greatness lies not in the accumulation of material possessions but in the ability to uplift and inspire those around us.

Many who know him count themselves fortunate to have encountered him. Indeed, there is a recurring sentiment among those within his circle that destiny smiled kindly on them the day their paths crossed with his.

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Such is the effect of a man whose benevolence transcends social and professional boundaries.

At 59, JAT as fondly called stands as a compelling reminder that a life of impact is measured not solely by personal accomplishments but also by the positive difference one makes in the lives of others. His journey thus far reflects purpose, compassion and an abiding commitment to humanity.

On this occasion of his birthday, the tributes are many and deserved. He is being celebrated as “one of the significant contributors to Africa’s economic growth and development.” But perhaps the greatest tribute comes not from statesmen or magazine covers, but from the young entrepreneurs across the continent who look at Tinubu and dare to dream bigger.

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At 90, Chief Mrs. Alice Mobolaji Osomo Remains a Symbol of Purposeful Leadership – Ambassador Iji

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The Nigerian Ambassador to the Russian Federation, Ambassador Joseph Olusola Iji, has paid glowing tribute to Chief Mrs. Alice Mobolaji Osomo on the occasion of her 90th birthday, describing her as a distinguished elder stateswoman whose legacy of service continues to inspire generations within and beyond Nigeria.

In a congratulatory message issued from the Embassy of the Federal Republic of Nigeria in Moscow, Ambassador Iji celebrated the former minister’s remarkable contributions to national development, noting that her career remains a shining example of patriotism, dedication and unwavering professionalism.

According to the Ambassador, Chief Osomo’s public service journey is a masterclass in leadership and commitment to nation-building. He recalled her tenure as Commissioner for Trade, Industries and Cooperatives in Ondo State, where she played a pivotal role in laying the state’s industrial foundation through the establishment of key industries and enterprises that contributed significantly to economic growth and employment.

Ambassador Iji further highlighted her distinguished service at the national level, where she held strategic positions including Minister of Establishment and Management Services, Director of NICON Insurance, and Minister of Housing, Land and Urban Development.
“In every role she occupied, Chief Mrs. Osomo demonstrated selfless commitment to national progress and upheld the highest standards of excellence,” he noted.

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The Ambassador also expressed pride in Chief Osomo’s roots as a daughter of Apoi Land and a respected leader from Ondo State, emphasizing that her achievements have brought honour not only to her community but also to Nigeria as a whole.

He described her as a matriarch whose life embodies the values of integrity, resilience, and service, Ambassador Iji said her impact continues to transcend geographical boundaries and generations.

“As she marks this remarkable milestone, we celebrate not just her longevity but the enduring legacy she has built through decades of dedicated service to humanity and nationhood,” he stated.

He concluded by offering prayers for God’s continued blessings upon the nonagenarian, wishing her excellent health, abiding joy, peace and many more years of fulfilment.

Chief Mrs. Alice Mobolaji Osomo’s 90th birthday has attracted widespread goodwill messages from across Nigeria and the international community, reflecting the profound respect and admiration she has earned through a lifetime of exemplary public service and leadership.

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The Other Side of Kayode Ajulo

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He is widely admired as one of the brightest legal minds of his generation, an exceptional advocate whose deep understanding of the law earned him the prestigious title of Senior Advocate of Nigeria (SAN).

Today, Dr. Kayode Ajulo, Officer of the Order of the Niger (OON) holds the influential office of Commissioner for Justice and Attorney General of Ondo State.

In both legal and political circles, Dr. Ajulo is seen as a force to be reckoned with and respected for his sharp intellect, fearless courage, and an unshakable commitment to justice.

But there’s a side of him that most people rarely get to see.

While the public encounters him in courtrooms, strategy rooms, and government corridors, Ajulo’s life is equally shaped by something quieter, deeper and undeniably spiritual.

Those who know him well often describe a man whose faith goes beyond public displays. He is not the kind of person who treats worship with casualness; rather, he is deeply devoted to the things of God, with a reverence that shows in how seriously he takes his spiritual responsibilities.

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And then there’s another interesting detail: beyond the legal mind, Ajulo is also said to have a genuine love for hymn music, a softer, more reflective side that finds joy in worship, Christian fellowship, and hymn renditions. For him, faith is not a public performance; it is a life lived with devotion.

That lesser-known side of his personality was on full display last weekend when he honoured the Women Fellowship Day of the Cherubim and Seraphim Church, Abuja District Headquarters as Special Guest of Honour and Father of the Day.

Witnesses described the outing as touching and unforgettable. Ajulo reportedly delivered inspiring messages filled with conviction, sprinkled with soul-lifting songs that resonated strongly with the congregation.

His words moved the audience so deeply that many gave him a standing ovation, accompanied by thunderous applause.

In addition, the Ondo Attorney General further demonstrated his commitment to the work of the gospel through generous financial support for the church’s activities.

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To Kayode Ajulo, life is clearly not defined by title alone, nor by legal brilliance or political influence. Behind the formidable advocate is a man driven by faith, service, and a steady devotion to God, proving that even with a tough legal mind, his heart still beats for humanity and for the work of the Kingdom.

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