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I’m alone to face mockery from enemies who pretend to be friends – Betty Akeredolu

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Betty, the heart-broken widow of late Governor Oluwarotimi Akeredolu of Ondo State, has said she will be alone to face all manners of mockery from adversaries and friends following the death of her husband.

In her tribute, Betty, who has received several criticisms since Akeredolu’s death, said the death of her husband hurts her badly as she would be left in the midst of enemies who pretended to be friends and outright adversaries.


Betty said some friends had lashed out at late Akeredolu and described him as weakling because he loved her.

 

She queried if her husband described as generalissimo of Amotekun could be a weakling?

 

According to her, “By the way, do they know what love is? I don’t think so. In their homes, while growing up they saw their mothers trampled upon as doormats. Beaten up like a punch bags.

 

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“They copied the template and treated their wives as pieces of furniture that could be easily discarded as trash in many instances, the subjugation was garnished with beatings while the community looked the other way and remained unperturbed by gender-based violence/reigned supreme nationwide.”

“In civilized climes, if you beat your wife, jail awaits you even if you are a Governor. They marvel that a Nigerian man can love his wife. To them na only Oyibo man dey love. They are infuriated that a Yoruba man can love his wife who is Igbo.

“How can? Igbo lasan, lasan! To them na only Oyibo man dey love. Na love at first sight brought us together, biko. No be juju! Na love make me cross the Niger. That love at first sight turned out to be true and pure. And you were proud to say it . You were proud to show it. You were even prouder to tell the people of Ondo State and beyond that, we were a team.

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“You were audacious to tell your people that “you voted for one but got two”. A testimony of my positive contribution to your life and career, emotionally and intellectually.

 

“We differed on one aspect, though. Religion. You were religious and wore your faith on your sleeves. I’ am not. With no apologies. You were frustrated. Yet, we managed to work it out by harnessing our communication skills.

 

“You came to terms with my position on religion and respected my choice of pragmatism. And a peaceful home we built by respecting each other’s idiosyncrasies, supporting each other’s career pathways, and loving each other at the same time. That you were courageous is now like a radio jingle on the lips of all and sundry.

 

“As a partner, you were kind and playful but annoying sometimes with your jokes which became normal over the years given that trying to change you from cracking expensive jokes was an exercise
in futility. During our early years of marriage when we started from scratch, you made sure we didn’t lack.

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“You took care of me and the children. With time, you became the best husband, dad, and grandpa any wife, child or grandchild would wish for.

 

“Aketi’s tribute to Betty @60 on July 20, 2013, gives the reader an insight into the marriage of 42 ys we had. We were soul mates. If there is anything like another life, I will marry you and you remain darling mi! ”

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SPECIAL TRIBUTE: Celebrating a rare icon, master strategist, and a true Professor of practical politics.

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At 90, Otunba Bushura Adedeji Alebiosu – “Bush of Africa” stands as a living testament to wisdom, resilience, and enduring influence.

His life has been a remarkable journey of service, mentorship, and unwavering commitment to community development and political excellence at the grassroots.

Otunba Alebiosu’s legacy is written not just in years, but in lives touched, leaders raised, and structures built. A bridge between generations, his voice has shaped conversations, guided decisions, and inspired countless individuals to embrace purposeful leadership.

Today, we celebrate not just longevity, but impact. Not just age, but relevance. Not just a man, but an institution.

May your wisdom continue to illuminate paths, and may your legacy remain evergreen.

Happy 90th Birthday, Bush of Africa

E-signed:

Oloye Salami Oluwaseun
Managing Director/CEO
Crosserlough Development Company

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Zaynab Otiti Obanor: The Queen with Uncommon Milk of Kindness Celebrates Birthday with the Needy

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In a world where birthdays are often marked by glittering parties and exclusive guest lists, Zaynab Otiti Obanor chose a different path—one paved with compassion, empathy and an uncommon milk of human kindness.

For Zaynab, philanthropy is not a seasonal obligation or a public relations gesture; it is a way of life. True to her enduring spirit of generosity, she marked her birthday not with chandeliers and champagne, but with open arms and a giving heart—celebrating with the needy, the forgotten and the vulnerable.

From distributing food items and essential supplies to sharing warm embraces and reassuring words, she turned what could have been a private celebration into a communal blessing. For many beneficiaries, her presence was more precious than the gifts she brought. She did not merely give; she connected. She listened. She cared.

Those who know her say this is vintage Zaynab—graceful yet grounded, elegant yet empathetic. A woman who understands that true royalty is not defined by status but by service. In her quiet but impactful way, she continues to demonstrate that the greatest wealth one can possess is a generous spirit.

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Her philosophy has always been clear: to change the world, we must first change our attitude toward giving. And on her special day, she once again proved that kindness, when shared, multiplies.

As she adds another year, Zaynab Otiti Obanor stands tall—not just as a celebrated figure, but as a beacon of hope. A queen, indeed, whose crown shines brightest in the lives she touches.

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President Tinubu at 74: Wale Tinubu Showers Praises, Applauds President’s Courage and Wisdom

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As President Bola Ahmed Tinubu clocks 74 today, tributes have continued to pour in, with Dr. Jubril Adewale Tinubu, CON, leading the chorus of commendation for what he describes as a legacy of courage and far-reaching vision.

In a warm gesture that underscores respect, loyalty, and shared vision, Tinubu, GCE, Oando Group and a prominent figure in Nigeria’s corporate sphere extended heartfelt felicitations to the President, celebrating a life defined by resilience, leadership, and enduring impact on Nigeria’s political and economic landscape.

Dr. Tinubu, praised the President for his steadfast commitment to nation-building, describing him as a visionary leader whose influence has remained pivotal in shaping modern Nigeria. He noted that President Tinubu’s journey—from his days as a pro-democracy advocate to his emergence as the nation’s number one citizen—stands as a testament to courage, tenacity, and strategic foresight.

According to him, the President’s Renewed Hope agenda continues to inspire confidence among stakeholders within and outside the country, as it seeks to reposition Nigeria on the path of sustainable growth and prosperity. He commended Tinubu’s bold reforms and unwavering determination to tackle long-standing structural challenges, emphasizing that true leadership often requires difficult but necessary decisions.

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“Leadership asks for courage, the kind that stands firm when decisions are difficult, and the path is not always applauded. You have taken on that responsibility, making choices that are stabilising our economy and restoring confidence’’ Dr. Tinubu stated.

He further prayed for renewed strength, wisdom, and good health for the President, expressing optimism that the years ahead will usher in even greater accomplishments for both the leader and the nation at large.

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