Reactions have continued to trail the crashed marriage of Nigerian dancer, Kaffy.
The dancer has, however been condemned by some Nigerians over a recent comment on being grateful about the failed marriage.
In a post shared on her Instagram page, Kaffy expressed appreciation to everyone who had reached out to her, stating that she’s more than a dancer who explores her full humanity through dance.
Kaffy said her marriage failed because of many reasons, and she’s grateful because she was blind, and now she can see.
Kaffy added that she’s ready to share some of those things she suffered in her marriage so that other people can learn from it.
She wrote: Those who know me know I am more than a dancer. I explore my full humanity through Dance, I am an advocate for excellence and productivity.
My marriage failed for so many reasons and I am grateful I failed because I was blind and now I see. Follow me and I go show you wetin I see so you won’t fall like me and if you do… You shall rise.
My Truth has set me free from a lot that was wrongfully conditioned by various elements and one step at a time I will share :My mistakes
how I identified them
surviving depression
my process to healing
the kind of help I got
And so many life lessons I learnt and still learning ( I will always be a learner for life ).
People need to know ! A life out there can be saved , a marriage out there can do better than mine and more importantly, a second chance is always there for us all to take ! I love you !
Reacting to the post, some Nigerians who felt she was spilling so much urged her to keep quiet.
cute_d_1 wrote: Can this babe just keep quiet
david_da_01 wrote: @theogbeniopa I was about saying this , she should just rest already
rolinks_luscioustreats wrote: Nawa o. There are still good marriages o. Make una no fear
An Instagram user berated Kaffy over the crash of her marriage to Joseph Ameh.
Commenting on the news on an Instagram blog, the Instagram user said Kaffy had given millions of youth who had looked up to her that divorce is the right thing to do.
The fan added that Kaffy had joined other bandwagons to promote the destruction of marriage and questioned what happened to love she and her ex-husband saw at the beginning of their union.
Responding, Kaffy said people should not live their life to react to the world but ensure they fulfil their purpose and destiny.
Kaffy added that nobody is her author and can’t write her story to fit their narrative.
You’ll say I don’t understand the depth of how far you tried… but it’s not true, just know that you’ve through millions of youth that looked up to you from days of #maltaguinessstreetdance that divorce is a thing to do… you just showed us that the wrong way, you just made kids that will grow with the stigma of divorce and the tails will show in time, you just chose the work world and neglected Malachi 2:6,…
You just joined the bandwagon to promote the destruction of the first ministry of God made on earth,…what happened to the love you both saw at the beginning… self woke and selfishness has killed marriage in my era, however, God still got remnants, some of us will still marry according to the will of God and will stay in it, build it and bring God honour through selflessness and faith… Thank you.
Kaffy wrote: One day you shall understand. Live your life not to react to the world but to fulfil your purpose and destiny. You are not my auth, you can’t write my story to fit your narrative. It is well
